I HAVE AN ATTITUDE PROBLEM... towards
ignorant, un-infomed, rude, and people who are prejudice, even if they
are joking, especially in a crowd of people where most of them, they
do not know.
My comments as a result of this attitude, make me sound
angry, when actually, I am simply frustrated at their stupidity,
careless and reckless behavior, and with their blatant rudeness
towards those around them, where their only excuse is that they are
oblivious to everything else except for what they are doing or what
is on their minds.
Many of these people were raised in
homes with appropriate morals and values that we consistently
reinforced by their thoughtful parents, relatives, and/or guardians
and which they demonstrated at home and most of the time when away
from home as well, but which have slipped farther and farther behind
their consciousness as time passes them by.
You can see this shitty behavior in:
- grocery stores
- shopping malls
- restaurants
- retail stores
- in cars on the highway
- leaving churches
- entertainment events
And, those of us who know better, since
walk around or avoid the disturbance as if it never happened, tacitly
reinforcing the behavior each time we decide that is our best course
of action.
There is no one group who can be
blamed, because the behavior is across the board and is reflected in
the following groups of people:
- Young males and females
- Middle aged males and females
- Older males and females
- foreign visitors and residents/citizens
- All geographical locations within US
- All rural or urban areas
- Among educated and uneducated people
And, the fact that it is so wide spread
among all aspects of our society, leaves me with the impression that
it is either reflective or a by product of our current society as it
has evolved since the 1950's, or about 65 years ago when it was not
this way at all.
And, I know this for real because I was around 65
years ago, even though I was only about 3 or 4 years old... I could
still observe and make mental connections with appropriate and
inappropriate behaviors reflective of my parental training.
And, all these years later, I still
display appropriate and proper behavior in all aspects of life and
when I see something taking that is not properly displayed, it simply
pisses me off big time, and my attitude grows bigger than my weight
but not bigger than my bank account.
My wife, bless her heart, wants me to
walk away from it... but, I have noticed recently that when it
happens to her, she does not follow her own advice; however, she does
follow it more than I do...
This morning, I was at the gym
exercising as I have been doing for the last several months. I go
for about an hour (give or take), Monday through Friday, and my
arrival time varies between 9:30 am and 10:30 am when it is the least
crowded; although, 11:30 am is a pretty good time as well, but that
kills the day for me when I go that late.
So today, I was on this
machine where I have to sit in a seat and raise my elbows up as high
as I can get them (like a wing flapping duck I suppose) and while I
am in the process of doing this, an older gentleman slips in between
two machines with me on his immediate right in one machine and
someone else to his immediate left in another machine, and asks me if
I will stop my exercising so he can talk to his friend.
“HELL NO,” I say not
looking at him, “you can damn sure wait until I have finished!”
He backed out ever
so slowly and waited 60 seconds for me to finish my routine... I
got up without looking at him and moved to the next machine on my
exercising protocol. The more I thought about that the angrier I got
and I did not give a damn how many people heard me say that.
While I was on my
last machine, and reflecting a tad on what I had said and how I had
said it, I wish that I had said, “Sir... why don't you go
out there to the lady sitting behind the desk who is the morning
manager for this gym and ask her for permission to interrupt my
exercise routine so that you can bullshit with your friend about some
bullshit topic?” But,
that might have made him mad and we would want that to happen, now
would we?
So... yes... I have an ATTITUDE PROBLEM... and, the older I get
the worse my attitude gets and the more intolerant that I find myself
becoming with these types of people... I mean, who the hell do they
think they are in the first place?
TURN THE OTHER CHEEK... you say... well perhaps, years ago I
would be willing to do that, but it is not that easy anymore. And
yes, I do know that there is quite a bit of strength and power in
being submissive... in fact, the dominate person, is only dominate
because the submissive gives that person the right to have that power
in the first place. So, the submissive is the one who is actually in
control.
But, that logic has no influence on me or even over me, because I
derive great satisfaction from having the ATTITUDE PROBLEM that I
have... it is like I have waited all my life just so I could
experience the satisfaction from having this kind of an ATTITUDE
PROBLEM.
Still, I suppose that if the truth be known, and in a
moment of weakness, I might, just might mind you, admit that perhaps
I maybe should not have phrased it exactly how I phrased it or use
the harsh tone that I (no doubt) used when expressing my opinion and
answer.
No wonder people in charge feel the need to control the masses the
way that they do... it really makes a lot of sense to me now...
even though, I would never submit to their control... I can see how
others should be forced to do so. Still, I wonder in a reflective
way these days, if we, as a society, should spend more time with
those among us who have never been exposed to these manners.
But,
why should we care about them... and their lack of manners when those
who have been given manners, eventually forsake their manners?
I HAVE AN ATTITUDE PROBLEM... and, as long as others act the way
they do, then I see no reason why I should work on improving my
attitude.
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